A 39-year-old Lagos-based pastor, Andrew Ndubisi, has
dragged his wife, Seraphina, to an Igando Customary Court sitting in the
state, to seek the dissolution of his four-year-old marriage citing
sexual starvation as his reason for seeking the divorce.
Pastor Ndubisi told the court that his wife was frustrating him as she
starves him of s*x and food at will, always coming up with flimsy
excuses anytime he wants to make love to her.
“My wife (Seraphina) starves me of food and s*x. She always gives
excuses whenever I want to make love to her. Despite all my pleading,
she will not allow me; my body is not a firewood or iron rod.
Apart from s*x, she also denies me food; she is a poor cook and
hardly cooks. Whenever she does, it is either the food is too salty or
watery. If I complain, she will take the food and dispose of it and she
will never apologize. I used to buy food to eat or go hungry.”
Apart from the sexual starvation accusation, the pastor also accused his wife of infidelity and having affairs with other men.
“My wife is having an affair. On February 1, 2016, I called my wife
with a new SIM I just bought. She never knew I who was calling and
asked if it was because my wife was around that I refused to call or
visit her.
It was then that I knew that my wife was having an affair. I
refused to respond. I waited for her to do the talking and she started
calling me sweet names and told me how much she loves and misses me.”
“She insisted I should say something; I later revealed myself to her and
she was shocked. Before I got home, she has packed out with our
three-year-old daughter.
When she did not return for days, I reported at the police station;
I also went to the radio and television stations including a newspaper,
to place an announcement of a missing person.”
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